Cyberstalking is a new phenomenon that allows anonymous online stalkers to prowl for victims. Online bloggers traditionally provide personal details about their lives. As a result, many women that blog are becoming victims. Most people are concerned about children on the Internet and set up rigorous posting guidelines for children, adolescents, and teenagers, but few adults heed the warnings and often do not consider that they too can be targeted.
Females, in particular, should be cautious when circumnavigating the blogosphere. If you are a blogger or contemplating an online journal, consider these tips to protecting your identity:
Do not have an online profile.
Most blogging services allow bloggers to create an
online profile. While it might be fun to post information about likes
and dislikes, it is best to refrain from posting any personal details.
Often, personal details inadvertently provide insight into physical
location or habits. The aggregate information in a personal profile can
also assist someone interested in pursuing an individual.
Post anonymously.
Manage your blog anonymously or adopt an alias for
all online posting. This will help protect you in the event that you
draw unwanted attention.
Avoid personal or identifying
details.
Avoid any personal or identifying details when
posting in your blog. Do not post in advance about locations that you
will be or about areas that you live near.
No photos.
Refrain from posting a picture. Photos can invite trouble or unwanted
attention.
Avoid inappropriate dialogue.
Be careful not to engage in dialogue that could be
interpreted in a way that it was not intended. Sometimes humorous
threads can get out of hand. If the dialogue degrades to an area that
makes you uncomfortable, disengage from the dialogue and refrain from
further posting. Also when making decisions about individuals online,
consider their past posting behavior and attempt to consider their true
intentions.
Lurkers.
Always remember that just because you do not have a
dialogue with someone does not mean that they are not reading
everything that you write. Many people merely lurk on line and don't
engage in comment posting, but do read what is written. Your audience
could be much larger than you realize.
Timeless.
Internet content is timeless, and keep in mind that
even if you remove content, it might be archived or syndicated. If you
do not want something read, do not post it to the Internet. High
Schools, Colleges and Employers all search the Internet to discern an
individuals history. Sordid details about a late night will not help
land a coveted job.
The internet is a haven for all types of predators. Always remember that just because someone says something is true, does not mean that it is. Predators adopt personas of who they think you want them to be. Just as we provide guidelines to young children, adults should be wary and take precautions when posting online as well.
While blogging can be a great outlet and channel, and in someway immortalizing thoughts, it is important that safety is considered and that good blogging practices are followed at all times.
About the Author:
Sharon Housley manages marketing for FeedForAll http://www.feedforall.com
software for creating, editing, publishing RSS feeds and podcasts. In
addition Sharon manages marketing for NotePage http://www.notepage.net
a wireless text messaging software company..